Integrity, a word that is supposed to be the mainstay of any relationship but these days it is sorely lacking in our society and your ‘word’ is no longer what it used to be. Ethical behavior and principles have been disregarded for individual gain and self-serving self-interests. This lack is eroding all that we stand for including honesty and loyalty. The current downward trend and erosion of something valuable has far-reaching consequences because moral compass is a thing of the past for some and “your word is your bond” is a non-entity as far as others are concerned.
What is integrity?
It is defined as, “the quality of being honest and having strong moral principles that you refuse to change.” In other words, say what you mean, and do what you say.
Here are some quotes that speak to the heart of the matter:
“Integrity is doing the right thing, even when no one is watching.” C. S. Lewis
“Integrity is not something you show others. It is how you behave behind their back.” Unknown
“Integrity is making sure that the things you say and the things you do are in alignment.” Unknown
“Wisdom is knowing which road is the right one: Integrity is taking it.” Unknown
“When wealth is lost nothing is lost; when health is lost, something is lost; when character is lost, all is lost.” Unknown
“If you don’t want anyone to find out, don’t do it.” Chinese Proverb
“You learn a lot about someone by what they choose to do when no one is watching.” Shane Parrish
“People with good intentions make promises but people with good character keep them.” Unknown
A lie is a lie.
A white lie is a lie.
A half truth is a lie.
A hidden truth is a lie.
A lie by omission is a lie.
A lie is a lie.
PERIOD!
You are not born with integrity, it is a learned behavior. It is knowing or getting into the habit of doing the right thing even when it is HARD and inconvenient at times but it is necessary because it gives people the moral and ethical clarity they need to do the right thing at the right time and a person of integrity stands by their word and is considered to be someone you can trust. That says it all.
Have an amazing day.
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