I don’t know if you would consider her a celebrity but with all the hoopla or rather the hateful rhetoric going on around her, I would say she is more of a celebrity than royalty.
Sitting down with her would be an honor and talking about her trials and tribulations would be even more so. If Princess Diana was hounded by the press, I would say that Meghan was and is being demonized for marrying into the royal family. American, divorced, mixed-race, and not quite one of them, those are some of the reasons but there is more to this story than meets the eye.
The lady has a voice and she has used it to voice her concerns about racism. If it is unbelievable that racism exists, look around you. Albert Einstein once said, “Racism is a disease of white people,” and it is a vile disease. Unfortunately, it has taken on a life of its own and it is a worldwide phenomenon now, one that it is not going to disappear anytime soon and it is no longer just a white man’s disease either.
“Racism is a refuge for the ignorant. It seeks to divide and to destroy. It is the enemy of freedom, and deserves to be met head-on and stamped out.” Pierre Berton
The “ugly people,” the ones who sit in basements with a microphone and a screen spewing their hatred is the norm today and if what is being perpetuated or purported is the truth or not, that is besides the point as far as social media is concerned.
I would like to ask her how she is. How she is really doing and to commend her for how she is handling all the “hatred and racist bullying” directed in her direction. The lady is showing tremendous strength, courage, and going about her business even though I think that “off with her head!” is coming through loud and clear and resonating everywhere. The rumor mongering and the hateful lies even more so.
Her brand, “As Ever,” is doing exceptionally well and I hope it goes through the roof! Doing well is the best revenge and you can already see the effects it is having on those who are adept at spreading lies and hate and those who want nothing more than to bring her down to her knees. The rumors are hyping up both from those basements and from those with bigger megaphones. The alarming fact is that this racist bullying is being sanctioned by the media, the press, and from other circles. Nothing is off limits as far as they are concerned and the daily Meghan bashing is hard to watch and to stomach. The person in question is taking it in her stride and fighting it with her success and it seems to be working. She is marching to a different drumbeat, keeping silent for the most part and refusing to kowtow to the racist bullying.
I would love to sit down with her to talk about the strength she has, and the gumption to keep her mouth shut and to move on with her life. Unfortunately, it is not enough when you are faced with such HATRED, the monumental kind. Where is all this hate coming from? It is hard to comprehend but it is out there doing its rounds and coming up with ridiculous stories and lies to fuel the hate and contempt each and every single day. Shameful and shameless behavior no less, but the “uglies” thrive on such hateful actions.
“History has shown us that courage can be contagious, and hope can take on a life of its own.” Michelle Obama
Much success, peace, and courage in everything you do.
Which celebrity would you love to meet, and what would you talk about?
It came in a vintage jar, the contents a dark burgundy red, and I could see big chunks of cherry staring back at me from the interior. This wasn’t store-bought but homemade. The woman across the street handed it over with love in her eyes and even though it was a nasty day out with fall trying to make a showing, that glass of cherry jam brought some sunshine into my life.
I took it with gratitude because I know her cherry jam making skills. She does it beautifully and the taste is out of this world! A spoonful on my toast this morning had me singing her praises! She is sweet, well into her 80s but the lady never stops. She is on the go from morning to dusk doing everything necessary to keep herself moving. Working in her garden is something she loves doing, baking is her other love. Her son still comes over for lunch and dinner since he works from home. I don’t know what the deal is with him. He is good-looking, has a great job,has a nice looking sports car but I have never seen him with a woman or a man for that matter.
Who am I to wonder when mine hasn’t called or written in two weeks! I’m a helicopter mom but I’ve retired that helicopter and it is no longer working. I heard from my ex that he has a girlfriend. He went through a breakup three weeks ago and has been down in the dumps ever since but the man in the know, my ex, says that he is up and running again. Yes, girls do have that kind of effect on the young and not so experienced. So, I guess his life is revolving around her now. The good thing, he made it through his probationary period and is now a full-time employee and it is a big deal because that job is hard to come by. It also involves lots of traveling so I HOPE, I cross his mind now and then and he lets me know how he is doing although I am chomping at the bit to ask. I have to be patient but that is hard.
Coming back to that glass jar of jam. The neighborly gesture of caring brought more than just a jar of jam. It was sunshine, love, and caring all wrapped up in that jar of goodness. The fact that she took the time to show she cared mattered to me, and when she handed it over, she said, “Stay off your feet. No cleaning, no bending over, drink lots, and take care of yourself. You know what will happen if you don’t.” I nodded and I’ve been taking her advice although this time around, I do have slight discomfort and it is bugging me. Google says, “It is absolutely normal. You’ve gone through two surgeries, both big ones so give it time, about three weeks, and it will get better.” From Google to God’s ears!
It wasn’t just a glass of cherry jam, it was much much more and she knows it and I know it too. Kindness doesn’t appear everyday but sometimes it shows up in the form of a glass jar of cherry jam when you least expect it.
There are good people, bad people, kind people, caring people, cruel people and the list goes on. All just labels? I don’t think so. There are reasons why those labels exist, it is because such people do exist. Just listen to the news of today, the labels we place on people because bullying is seen as a rightful act where some are concerned, and is a norm today. The “ugly people” carry on with their daily bashing of others simply because social media has given them a platform to do so. It is more than cringeworthy and sometimes downright mean and cruel. I don’t need to name names but it is plain to see if you follow the news.
Coming back to being a good person and the question at hand, I think being a “good person” carries a lot of weight. I also believe that a good person acts with moral integrity. It means matching your words with your actions. This is hard to do but a good person has it ingrained within them. Secondly, a good person has empathy. It is not always about them. viewing life from another angle or from another person’s viewpoint is at the core of their being. Finally, I believe that a good person knows how to act with compassion towards others, and takes responsibility for their mistakes and tries to do better the next time around.
Am I good person? I think I am or at least I try to be. I have those core values ingrained within me through practice but as they say, practice makes perfect but it takes time and that is understood as well.
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It is known as the “Emerald Isle,” of the Indian Ocean and it also holds the nickname, the “Teardrop of India.” It is lush, green, and totally mesmerizing. I had several countries on my list before but somehow Sri Lanka seems to be the city of choice right now. I’ve been watching documentaries about the island and it beckons and I am ready and willing!
It has everything your heart desires as far as a fantastic vacation goes. Add great food and the spas to that and I’ve got everything I need. I’m into relaxing and Ayurveda is at the top of my list as well. I can see myself in a spa enjoying all that it has to offer.
The food, I heard, is way beyond delicious. The Crab Palace comes to mind and I used to think that Chilli Crabs, Singapore’s national seafood dish, was finger-licking good! Now, that I’ve seen what the Crab Palace has to offer, Singapore might just take second place! Just the thought of digging in has my salivary glands doing a somersault!
Right now, Sri Lanka is at the top of the list. However, it may change if I come across another country that catches my wandering eyes and locks it in! Yes, I want to travel again. I had my wings clipped this year and for some reason, I am ready to take off to faraway places. Not sure if it is going to happen this year, I have to heal first but in time, I hope I can fly again!
What’s a country that’s at the top of your bucket list?
Yes, I’ve been obsessing about life and all its idiosyncrasies. It never stays the same, does it? Sometimes, it is up and you’re flying high, other times it is down and you hit rock bottom. Is there an in-between? I suppose like everything else in life, you get the in-between where you’re not sure if you’re up or down and wondering when one or the other is going to hit!
Anyway, here are some of my favorite quotes about life and it does speak volumes as far as “life” is concerned.
“Sometimes life doesn’t give you what you want, not because you don’t deserve it, but because you deserve more.” Unknown
I get it but where is my more part? It sure is taking its time!
“Sometimes, life gives you a second chance, because you weren’t ready the first time.” Unknown
Hmm….I am ready now. I don’t need second chances, just show me the way to where the price is!
“Life is sometimes just like a WILLY…..It can be UP, it can be DOWN, but won’t be HARD forever.”
I agree and moving on.
“Sometimes in life, you have to make things happen. That you can change your life if you’re willing to let go of the old and actively look for the new. That even if you’re on the right track, you’ll get run over if you just sit there.” Jane Green
You mean like hiding out and pretending to be a recluse? I’m thinking that I need to get rid of that “recluse” habit and start moving!
“Sometimes, life will kick you around, but sooner or later, you realize you’re not just a survivor. You’re a warrior, and you’re stronger than anything life throws your way.” Brooke Davis
I’ve lived through the being strong part, let’s see the rewards start pouring in. Still waiting…..
“Sometimes life doesn’t unfold the way you want. But the detours, heartbreak and closed doors often leads you to something better, It’s not failures – It’s redirection guiding you toward the path you are meant to walk.”
I’ve been walking that path for a long time now, redirect please…..
“Sometimes in life your situation will repeat itself until you’re learned your lesson.” Unknown
OH GOD! That repetition part scares me. Are you telling me that I’ll never get out of this maze that we call life?
AND
“Sometimes what is leaving you, is actually giving you the freedom to fly.” Unknown
I like that one. Freedom to fly is a good thing right? Can we do it without the pain first part?
No can do? I thought so. Enough of “sometimes” for today.
I had to look this one up. What I found out. SEO (Search Engine Optimization) is “the practice of improving a website’s content, structure, and authority,” I didn’t go any further as I am a tech-klutz, so this one is way over my head!
Paying someone to do it is the way to go as far as improving anything on the computer goes and that is my opinion . Less stress, no fuss, and the tech-genius gets it done in a minimum amount of time without me having to do all the “dirty” work and pulling my hair out!
That’s my strategy for SEO. Nothing much I know but who cares! Next question please….
