“As you awaken, you will come to understand that the journey to love isn’t about finding “THE ONE” the journey is about becoming “THE ONE.” Craig Crippen
Ever since I started putting myself back in the dating circle, I’ve asked this question over and over again. How do I spot “The One?” Will he stand out like a sore thumb or will our paths cross and sparks would fly? The answer surprisingly is, you’ll have to look, decipher and discard as you go along to find that one special person. Love like in the movies is for the make-believe theater. Real life is something else.
However, he’s NOT the one if he takes you for granted.
He’s not the one if he enjoys cutting you down to size because it makes him feel good.
He’s definitely not the one if anger is part of his DNA and he goes on a rage fest every chance he gets. If this is the case, he is definitely not the ONE!
He’s not the one if your feelings do not matter to him.
He’s not the one if he’s hung up on someone else and you are just an option.
He’s not the one if he doesn’t take the opportunity to show you how much he cares.
He’s definitely not the one if he doesn’t spoil you!
He’s definitely not the one if he loves you one minute and walks off when someone else catches his fancy.
He’s not the one if being a “woman” in his books means you are the weaker sex.
He’s not the one if he can’t take ‘NO’ for an answer.
He’s not the one if he looks down on you. Nope, definitely not the ONE!
He’s not the one if there isn’t tingling in your cells when he touches you.
He’s definitely not the one if he makes you question your self-worth.
He’s not the one if spending time with you is a chore and not a priority.
On the other hand….
IF HE IS THE ONE….
You’ll never have to question
who he chooses because it will be you every day.
He will be the support that you’ve prayed for, the fantasy that you thought only existed in movies and the friend that will never leave your side.
He will love you, flaws and all, & even past any pain that you’ve ever experienced. He will be intentional about his efforts.
If he’s the one,
you’ll know that you’re a priority,
not a backup plan. Unknown
The problem is not everyone who likes you can be the ONE and there is a difference between friendship and love. You have a right to choose the right person and if that is a problem then he is definitely NOT THE ONE!
Have an amazing day.
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