“Rejection is when we seek out a connection and the object of that connection turns us down. All people experience forms of rejection throughout their lives, whether they are turned down for a job they wanted, turned down for a date, or experience a friend or romantic partner ending their relationship.” http://www.verywellmind.com
It can be a no for a job interview, no when asked out on a date or no to a relationship, however, it is not a one rejection fits all kind of thing. There are different circumstances but they have one thing in common, they all have a negative connotation and that is the connection that binds each and every rejection. It is painful and it quite often affects your self-esteem and chips away at your self-confidence depending on the type of rejection and how cruel or mean the rejection was.
“Rejection is a common occurence. Learning that early and often will help you build up the tolerance and resistance to keep going and keep trying.” Kevin Feice
Not being picked for a job might seem traumatic and it may cause emotional or physical distress. Social rejections are just as upsetting. Getting turned down on a date or a sudden breakup could cause turmoil or upheaval in a person’s life. Or if someone doesn’t want to be your friend, that can be especially painful.
“REJECTION doesn’t mean you aren’t good enough; it means the other person failed to notice what you have to offer.” Unknown
How do you deal with rejections? Perhaps by remembering:
“Every no brings you closer to a yes.” Unknown
If that doesn’t work, here are some tips from the people in the know. According to verywellmind.com, healthy ways of dealing with rejection is to let go of blame. Learn from it and approach it with a positive mindset and say it will be better the next time around and there is always a next time. Feel your emotions and don’t bottle them up. If you need to let it out, LET IT OUT!
“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: It is the courage to continue that counts.” Winston Churchill
There are unhealthy ways of dealing with it as well and we all know what those are, don’t we?
Taking a rejection personally and beating ourselves down with it is one way not to do it. Comparing ourselves to others is definitely not the way to go. Downplaying your feelings is not a good option but the most important point is to NEVER GIVE UP!
Rejections take all forms but learning to deal with them without letting it gnaw at your soul takes practice, patience and a positive mindset. Sure, you can’t just brush it off like water off a duck’s back because it has a tendency to go deeper but learning the right methods to deal with it means you are armed and ready to conquer anything even something as nasty as a rejection or two. And if someone rejects you, the quote below brought a smile to my face, hope it does to yours.
“Don’t feel BAD if someone REJECTS you, PEOPLE usually reject EXPENSIVE things because they can’t AFFORD THEM.”
One way of looking at it!
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