Quite often, we let the people we interact with on a daily basis, the world around us with its idiosyncrasies and events that happen to us interpret how we feel, how we react and how much worth we give it and if we are important or not in the grand scheme of things. I am guilty as charged.
The Dalai Lama said it best, “Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace.”
Yet we do it time and time again. Just yesterday, a girlfriend broke up with her so called boyfriend. He was for all purposes a NO-GO as far as I am concerned and it was clear for all to see including her but she is in a difficult place nonetheless. Finding out she was “not important” is a devastating cross to bear even if she saw it coming. Yet, this is nothing new. We hand over how important we are in a relationship to the other person and forget in the process that YOU as a person matter and you define how important you are and what you will stand for and what you won’t put up with.
“When you are important to another person, that person will always find a way to make time for you. No excuses, no lies and no broken promises.” Unknown
Relationships are hard enough as it is to navigate without having to deal with the “invisible man,” meaning the guy who says he loves you but when it comes down to showing you that you are important, he shows time and again that YOU are an afterthought and as far as the importance scale goes you are on the bottom rung of the ladder. No guessing game needed here. You will know and it is up to you to put yourself front and center and say, enough is enough!
“You are important and you matter.
Your voice matters.
Your life matters.
Your feelings matter.
Your story matters.
ALWAYS.” Unknown
Let me add to that. You as a person matters and don’t take yourself for granted either.
One Day It Just Clicks
“You realize what’s important and what isn’t. You learn to care less about what other people think of you and more about what you think of yourself.
You realize how far you’ve come and you remember when you thought things were such a mess that you would never recover. And you smile.
You smile because you are truly proud of yourself and the person you’ve fought to become.” Steve Maraboli
Finally,
“Surround yourself with people who are going to lift you higher.” Unknown
You are well worth the effort and don’t let someone show you otherwise. Your worth is determined by you so stand tall and show the world that YOU ARE IMPORTANT.
Have an amazing day.
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